When it comes to having sex, orgasms are what make us work harder at each step. After all, the main point of having sex is to have orgasms that blow your mind. The best ones are the ones that would drain all of your energy and bodily fluids. If you didn't have a satisfying orgasm, maybe you didn't really enjoy that session as a whole. How would you make sure that your orgasms and those of your partner are the most fun? Well, the answer to your simple question is pretty simple. Try your best during pre-play! Think about it: if neither you nor your partner enjoyed pre-play, that displeasure would surely last until you both reached orgasm. You and your partner might cum, but it won't be as satisfying as the first time you both had sex. It's the same as starting your car and then driving it right away. You didn't give your car enough time to warm up. Because of this, your whole driving experience won't be as good as when you give the car at least a few minutes to get ready.Foreplay is the part of having sex that gets the least attention. The main reason for this is that people want to start penetrating as soon as possible without really thinking about the consequences. You might want something quick, but that's the point. Quickies are for when you need to get your juices out as quickly as possible. They are not a good choice if you want to enjoy the whole sexual experience. People are, of course, pressed for time. It could be because of their job or because they have to do things at home. Especially if you're already married, you'd have much less time alone with your partner. It's even possible that neither of you has any time to just lie in bed and enjoy the other's body. Sadly, this happens to most couples, whether they are married or not. But you should really set aside time at least once in a while to really dig into each other so that the fire keeps going.